Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Treasured treasures

Good morning to all! I say it is morning here but some it might be afternoon already! Thought I would pop in a say hi on this wonderful Wednesday! What you detect cherriness in my voice? Well yes I must say I have nothing to complain about! Life is good!

I found out last night at a church meeting that I got the job working part time with the 5/6 graders! I'm so excited!!! (I need to find another puncuation besides explanation points) Not only do I get to work with a bunch of terrific kids, my daughter included, and watch them grow in their journey with God but I get paid too! I really felt a strong tug to take this opportunity, could it be another stone on God's path to be able to stay at home? That has been weighing on my mind a lot too. And wanting to home school on top of that. Oh what the possibilities that the Lord has, just need to remain patient and faithfull! That is sometimes easier said than done. Meanwhile, I'm going to take on this new opportunity strive to do my best and enjoy it along the way.

I wanted to share a treasure that Jim's Aunt Bev brought with her when they were out a few weeks ago.

Isn't it pretty? I think the story is that her grandmother and aunt made it. One made the pillow and one did the stiching. It was funny, when I opened the box up Bev said that the paper was acid free so I could re-store it and I looked at her and said why would I do that? No, it will be displayed proudly. I love treasures with stories. How about you? What treasures do you have packed away that could be brought out and displayed proudly? I challenge you.....

Thursday, July 30, 2009

New Tasks

Mark this on your calendar, a post two days in a row. LOL! Hmmmm, I said I was starting new things but I'm sure I was intending this to be one. Anyway, I thought I would share a few thoughts today. Frumpy Thursday. Geez, I really need to stop the negativism!

One of the things I wanted to share is I'm taking on a new responsibility. You might ask, why when several posts back you were complaining about your life not being simple. Well, it is church related. And really I have already been volunteering with the church it is just a more defined task. I will be the intern for Highway 56 (5th and 6th graders). I've been involved with the children's ministry (1st-4th grade) for about 7 months now and new I would be moving up to Hwy 56 because Emily will be moving up in a couple of weeks. I went ahead and started working with them already. I have been asked and have excepted to be the intern and be responsible for Hwy 56. Now, I'm somewhat nervous. I mean the curriculum is already picked but I will be solely responsible for setting everything up and leading. It is going to take some preparation time which I can do and plus I will have helpers too, but I've been the helper not the leader. I'm a leader by nature but this is different. These are young lives I'm encouraging, nurturing and teaching. But do I know enough to teach them? Say a prayer for me because I think I'm going to need it. Oh, it will be okay. I'm just excited and nervous. It's funny because this next week's lesson is how God is full of grace, so I shouldn't worry about failing!

On another note I thought I would share a couple more garden picks. I looked last night and I there are several squash plants coming up and now I have two cherry tomatoes starting!! Yea!

This is my one canteloupe plant, it is getting so big it is starting to grow out in the yard.


The row closest to the bottom, is the spaghetti squash, then a row of green beans and then the squash and zucchini that is taking over!

On that note, have a wonderful day. It is only 77 degrees here today. Beautiful and cool for a day in July. Hmmmm, may be fall is right around the corner.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Learning a little at a time

Well, it has been a whirlwind of a time since I last posted or vented really. I have taken the steps to start simplifying our life. For instance I re-did my daughter's room by re-do I mean just that, well we didn’t repaint. For starters we brought everything out of her room and only put back in what she was going to keep. We did get rid a lot of stuff but the girl still has a lot of stuff. She has opted to get rid of her TV (yes I’m a bad Mom) and that will be coming out of her room shortly to make room for a corner computer desk, because she has to have a computer desk and a drawing desk. Can you say spoiled? Anyway, I had the dinning room, hallway, you name it cluttered with her stuff when I decided Elliott’s room needed going through as well as the toys. Okay I’m feeling overwhelmed, especially at this particular time we had company coming within a week. I got rid of more toys and clothes, well really I put them in a pile for the garage sale I plan on having this fall, might as well make a couple of bucks, but I did donate some items too. I ended up taking a few days off last week before company arrived and managed to pull the whole house together, cleaned in fact! I was so proud of the house and thought to myself, I’m not letting it get that way again, but just last night, Elliott had everything strung out all over the living room! UGH! I think more toys need to go!!!

The company that visited this past weekend was my husband’s Aunt and Uncle from Pennsylvania. We haven’t seen them in 5 years so it was a wonderful time, especially since they had never met Skeeter (aka: Elliott).

We took them to the Round Barn as well as visited the Memorial (aka: OKC Bombing Memorial) and also subjected them to my family and a traditional (almost) Bar-B-Q! They were only able to stay a few days and I enjoyed their company. I was sad to see them go Monday morning but understood that they had to get back.

They brought out a brass bed that belonged somewhere in the family (I forgot now) and I’m hoping we can either put it in Skeeter’s room or heck even ours.

So, I finally got my act together and planted a compact garden a few weeks back. I can’t even remember when exactly now but I have been praying and nurturing over my little garden. We were able to use our compost we started last year and made an 8 x 8 bed. Well I planted 2 crooked neck squash, 3 zucchinis, a row of green beans, a row of spaghetti squash, three cucumbers, one watermelon and one cantaloupe. My thinking was that not everything would survive, boy was I wrong! Everything has with the exception of 2 cucumbers and the watermelon. As you can see it is going nuts! And with all the rain we have been getting I’m sure I will have monster crops for sure! LOL!


I think next year we are going to put in at least two more 8 x 8 beds and a back bed along the fence for strawberries and pole green beans. As you can see my basil has taken over the old wash tub too! Anyone need basil?


Well that pretty much gets you up to date. Except a friend and I are reading through the Left Behind Series. Love them! Of course even though they are fiction, it has gotten me wondering about my own spirituality and where I stand. We are going to start a bible study on the End of Times and Revelations. Things are also in the works for more simplifying and may be even a more direct path to staying at home with the kids. But if the latter doesn’t come to pass, I’m bound and determined to have peace where I’m at in this time of my life!

Until next time, blessings to you and your family!
Christy

Thursday, July 9, 2009

Thursday Ramblings

***WARNING VENTING BY A WOMAN WHO IS PRE-MENOPAUSAL***

I've always tried to stay positive on my blogs but I'm so jumbled in my head that I must get things out. I thought I was pregnant but I'm not and I'm okay with that part. We weren't planning for any more but I would have accepted whatever God had in mind. What I'm not okay with, at least at this moment, is the fact that I feel like I'm getting old. What have I accomplished? Nothing. Oh yeah, you could say I have. I mean I have two degrees (big deal) two beautiful children which I wouldn't trade for anything (well at least at this moment) and a wonderful husband who has put up with me for almost 15 years. And I should be grateful, right?

I know it is all in my head right now but my heart feels so heavy. The stupid scale at the doctor's office was high too which put a bigger guilt trip on me and is very frustrating. I have been working my tail off to loose weight and I'm not getting any where.

I am taking steps to have my hormones check out and the doctor thinks it might be pre-menopausal (GREAT!) so that would explain the symptoms, etc. But all the more reason to feel old!

I don't feel like I have time for anything and I try so hard to prioritize so that the important things like God, my family and myself get taken care of but I feel so jumbled! I feel like I'm failing at everything and that I'm running out of time.

So you might ask how old are you? Well I'm 37 and will turn 38 in September. I have so many things to be thankful for and I am truly blessed, I just wish my heart new that. I know you can choose your attitude, well I want a joyful and peaceful attitude, but right now I have a bad attitude like Meredith Brooks in her song....

Sorry for this post but I just had to get my feelings out!

Friday, June 26, 2009

What does it take?

What does it take to be simple? To live a simple life?

The definition of simplify: to make simple or simpler; to reduce to basic essentials; to diminish in scope or complexity (streamline); to make more intelligible (clarify). When you Google simplify many results are given with the majority having to do with finding your Zen, de-cluttering your life and what you can do to simplify your life. All of which have good suggestions. But what does one do if they want to simplify their life in the way God would want us to. I don’t want to simplify my life to get more things done. That statement in itself seems so odd. Why would I want to do more? No, what I want is to be at peace. And I know right now my life isn’t as peaceful or simplified as I could probably make it.

We are a busy family. Emily has her activities, TaeKwon Do, swimming and art. And then Jim and I work around her schedule to work out and train. Of course our weekends are filled with swim meets or my races but I try to limit my races. Then we do a lot of volunteering for church. Which is good right? I know there is a lot of time that is wasted in front of the TV and in the evenings instead of reading to the kids or playing we all do our own thing….what a waste. I have felt for a while that we needed to unplug our life from the TV, I mean really how many cartoons can one watch and anything Jim or I watch is for mostly entertainment, what you would call brainless TV. Is that benefiting anyone? No not really.

So once again I’m on the journey of simplifying our life. To be a better wife, mother, friend, daughter, sister which will contribute to a better family and above all else to have a better relationship with God is what I will strive for. I’m a list maker so I will start a list of things that I want to do to simplify our lives and myself:

~ Set aside time for God. I have a perfect opportunity every morning. Jim leaves the house around 4:30 and I usually make his lunch. Instead of going back to bed I could read my bible, journal and pray. I know this is one area that God is trying to work in my life.

~Remove all TVs from the bedrooms (I know bad mother) and have only one TV in the house. Limit everyone’s TV time to a few hours a week.

~Watch my spending: no more Starbucks, Panera, lunches out etc. Instead I will set this money in a jar or better yet in my bank account. I’m sure that money can be used for something more beneficial. See if I can cut our grocery budget more, no more dry cleaning (I can iron you know), etc. I can make my own latte’s at home!

~ Simplify our house. Go through and donate, sell, give away or reuse in some way. I’m pretty good with our clothes. I haul through them at least twice a year, but I’m not too good on toys or other items in our house. I think I will plan a huge fall garage sale!

I know there are other things but I will start with these and add to them. There for a while I was being pretty frugal, I’m not sure what happened but I want to get back on track! Wish us luck!

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Long time no hear!




Well you might have thought I had dropped the face of the earth but not the case. I'm still around just had some refocusing. Things are going well but busy as usual. Between church, triathlons, training, TaeKwon Do, Emily's swimming, and just plain life there isn't a lot of room to do much of anything. But I'm going to try and blog a few times a week so we will see how it goes. I did get my thesis done and graduated last month finally. That is a big load off my shoulders, but of course now I want to go back to school (or at least I have the itch). I don't know what is going on with posting pictures but I can't tell when I paste them in which one is which so I will just tell you about them. The top on is me and my daughter and the Mother-Daughter Day Tea. The second one is our group that ran the Oklahoma Memorial Marathon. The handsome gentleman to the left is my hubby. The other two women are mother/daughter and are our TaeKwon Do instructors. And last but not least a updated picture of my goofball son! I hope everyone is doing well. I pop in occasionally to read your blogs.....Enjoy the summer.

Monday, March 23, 2009

Long time no hear!

Howdy, yes I'm still alive and kicking! I hadn't realized it had been so long since I had posted last. There have been a lot of things going on, but I have been keeping up with a few of my favorite places to visit. Somethings just get pushed to the side more than others. Anyway, I will try and get you up to date here.


On February 21st my husband and daughter were in a Taekwon Do tournament in Austin. Never been to Austin and enjoyed the drive down from Oklahoma City even if it meant being in the car with two kids for 6 hours. All I can say is Thank the Lord for DVD players! My parents splurged on our hotel room so the first night we stayed in a lovely hotel, I was glad we were there but sad in an odd way that it wasn't just my hubby and I (wink wink). Anyway, 12 people went down to compete. We were the only non-Texas team and everyone came home with at least one medal. Jim placed 3rd in patterns and Emily placed third in sparring! Look she is higher in belt than he is!
After the tournament we traveled up to Granbury Texas (about 2 1/2 hours North) and stayed the night. Why you might ask? Well I had a meeting the following week that I had to be at so my family left me (literally) there Sunday afternoon and I met up with my co-workers. But before they left we went to Dinosaur Valley State Park to see dinosaur tracks that were discovered there. My new picture at the top of the blog is overlooking the Puluxy River. I think it is a good picture of us.


After I got back from that trip, it has been a whirlwind of a time. I have managed to complete three running races, which you can pop over to my other blog (Excited about training) to see those results. And this coming weekend I have my first duathlon of the season!

This was Elliott riding his bike in the back of my car while I was running because it was too cold outside. Yes he was supervised at the time, my hubby took the picture!

Anyway, besides training, working, being a mom and wife, I need to finish my thesis. I defend my master's on May 1st and I still have a lot to do. I feel a little overwhelmed but know it is only temporary (or at least that is what I'm trying to tell myself). My training and races is my stress relief and luckily my hubby works out too plus our kids go with us to the gym. I know once I get this off my plate I will feel much better. So with that being said, if I disappear again for a while, keep me in your thoughts as I torture myself more. I will pop in from time to time to give you an update!